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Thursday
Jan182018

Shared parenting success in Arizona

Dr William Fabricius describes the success of Arizona's 2012 shared parenting legislation in a recent article which notes that:

The new statute was carefully worded to promote equal parenting time while still requiring judges to weigh the traditional children’s best interest factors, such as parental mental health, that might disqualify either parent. We removed the traditional factor that gave preference to the parent who had provided primary caretaking in the past, and added a new one stating that “absent evidence to the contrary, it is in a child’s best interest to have substantial, frequent, meaningful and continuing parenting time with both parents.”

The statute states that “consistent with children’s best interests, the court shall adopt a parenting plan that maximizes the parents’ respective parenting time.”

By not giving any target numbers, the law puts the focus on providing the child with as close to equal parenting time with both parents as possible for that family.

His research showed support from judges, court staff, lawyers and mental health providers for the new measures.  His conclusion: "Arizonans have found that there doesn’t have to be a trade-off between equal parenting time and judicial discretion when courts are directed to try to maximize children’s time with both parents."

Thursday
Jan182018

Holyrood Cross Party Group on Shared Parenting

The initiating meeting of a proposed Scottish Parliament Cross Party Group on Shared Parenting took place on Wednesday evening, January 17th.

15 individuals representing 10 parent and parenting organisations attended while apologies were received from three other organisation who couldn’t make it on the night.

The meeting was convened by Ian McKee (SNP). Gillan Martin and Bob Doris (both SNP) and Adam Tomkins and Finlay Carson (both Conservative) attended while apologies were received from Kate Forbes (SNP) and Andy Wightman (Green).

The meeting discussed and confirmed the name of the group, its aims and objectives and the shape of a prospective work programme, summarised as a wideranging exploration of relevant research, insight and information from within Scotland and abroad.

Three co-conveners were agreed: Ian McKee MSP, Adam Tomkins MSP and Gillian Martin MSP.

FNF Scotland will provide the secretariat support.

Proposed Cross Party Groups must be formally approved by the Scottish Parliament Procedures and Public Appointments Committee. The application will be submitted by Ivan McKee to the next available meeting.


Wednesday
Jan102018

FNF Scotland to launch group in Dundee

 

The group will establish a regular meeting place for parents (fathers or mothers) who are having difficulty  securing stable and consistent arrangements for time with their children after separation or even if they have never lived together. The aim of the monthly meeting is to provide advice and information about the problems they may be experiencing but will also be an opportunity for mutual support and positive encouragement in particular to dads that they have a lot to offer as parents. Around 90% of non-resident parents are fathers.

Ian Maxwell, FNF Scotland National Manager, says, “We are grateful to the Corra Foundation which has provided the funding to start a group covering Dundee, Angus, North Fife and tayside. Some fathers - and grandparents and other family members - have travelled from the area to come to meetings in Edinburgh, Stirling and Aberdeen. We take regular telephone enquiries individuals in Dundee and Tayside so it makes sense to establish a branch here where they can meet and share good parenting advice as well as help each other navigate through problems."

It is mostly but not exclusively dads who attend group meetings. Around 90% of non-resident parents are fathers. However, we also see mothers and members of the extended family like uncles, aunts and grandparents and new partners who can all be deeply equally affected when parents split.

Ian Maxwell says, “There is a wealth of research that shows children do best when there is a stable, loving and reliable relationship with both parents after they have separated. Our aim is to give support to the non-resident parent and his or her family in the effort to make sure the welfare of the children is at the heart of the arrangements they make. It is usually to everyone’s benefit if they can agree a way forward rather than head for the courts though there are many difficult situations when the parent with care refuses to co-operate and the case does end up in court. Our branch members provide emotional and practical support there too.”

The Dundee group will be FNF Scotland's 6th group. There are active groups in Aberdeen, Glasgow, Edinburgh, Stirling and Paisley as well as a monthly skype group for those further afield.

For further information about the Dundee meetings e mail info@fnfscotland.org.

 

Saturday
Dec232017

Holiday arrangements

Our office will be closed until January 8th but phones will be monitored over the holiday period. Good wishes to all our dads, mums, grandparents, new partners, aunts and uncles and thanks to our volunteers, fundraisers  and pro bonol lawyers who have helped over the past year.

Sunday
Dec172017

Boxing Day Carol: the movie

 

This short film was scripted and directed by John Bell, a Dad who is part of Midlothian Sure Start's Dads' Group, funded by Big Lottery Scotland.  If you didn't make it to the world premiere showing in Edinburgh on 16th December, here's a chance to see the film for yourself.


It emerged from a discussion by Dads on the emotional challenges of Christmas. The Dads Coordinator for Midlothian Sure Start, Tim Porteus says, 'The film powerfully recognises the emotional pain of Christmas for parents in this situation, but has an uplifting message about making the best of time they have.'

John Bell is a dad who has additional challenges because of a condition which means he has chronic and disabling pain.  John states, 'The pain I have is another angle I came at this. I've done my best not to allow my physical pain to be an issue for my children. In the same way, the simple message in the film is we understand the emotional pain for parents in this situation, but being a parent is also about putting our children first, and sometimes being creative in how we can do that, even in challenging circumstances.'

The film lasts 30mins and was filmed over three days last year. John's pain levels got too much to be able to edit it for last Christmas, but has managed to complete it just in time for this Christmas.